Okay, my last post was getting too long and I hadn’t even gotten to my honest evaluation. So, I decided to add a separate post of my evaluation. I’ve been intimately involved in a multi-site church for about 18 months on various levels of leadership. In addition, our style of multi-site leadership has changed over the past 18 months. So, this evaluation is simply my honest opinion based on my experiences. As a children’s pastor for a lot of years, I kind always felt a little isolated. In the early years when I was doing it part time or full time by myself, it was difficult to find time to network with others… or sometimes even find people to network with. I don’t know if it was just me, but a lot of my network attempts were very awkward. Again, maybe this was just me, but I sometimes felt I was being evaluated orÃ‚Â coached by others from larger ministries and those from smaller ministries tended to be on a defensive. I just found it hard to just relax and just enjoy being with others who served kids like me (it may have just been my area too, since I’ve been to conferences and have had no problems with this). However, regardless of the awkward unions, many times different churches approach ministry from different philosophies that it is hard to...Read More
Author: Kenny Conley
My new friend Dawn shot me an email asking me about what my church (being multi-site) is like. If you are closely involved in the multi-site movement, you would know that every one is different… kind of like snowflakes. My snowflake is Cross Timbers Community Church and it’s been a very cool ride for me, not without a few bumps along the way. I can say with complete confidence is that we are different from a lot of other multi-sites, but even more so, we’ve been evolving since this trip started. Let me explain my journey… JustÃ‚Â a few years ago I was the children’s pastor at a large Southern Baptist church in southern Indiana. It was my first full time gig and I was definitely growing. My church didn’t exactly fit the mold ot the traditional Baptist Church, but it was by no means cutting edge (not always a bad thing). While at a conference, I picked up a book called Beyond the Box and it rocked my world. I knew at that moment that I wanted more… I wanted to be a part of an innovative church. I called it a next-level church. What really struck me was the multi-site model for ministry. I loved it and thought it would be so great to work in that kind of environment. Ã‚Â Well, within a year and opportunity came for...Read More
Just a quick post to plug a company that really took care of me this last week. As I wrote in my last post, a large portion of our facility was ruined by flood water, including all of our nursery space. Since the carpet was pulled up (leaving only concrete exposed) we had to put something down for this weekend. I know I had seen these interlocking foam pads at Home Depot for years. I stopped by on Thursday night only to get the strangest looks when explaining what I needed. I tried Wal-Mart too. No luck. So, I get online and start hunting. Price really wasn’t going to stop me… I needed something. But for about 30 minutes I hunted for a great deal For the most part, I found 2″x2″ sectionsÃ‚Â that came in a 4 pack which sold for about $20 consistantly. It didn’t matter how many I got, the price stayed the same. Then I came across Get Rung. The deal seemed too good to be true. The more I ordered, the cheaper it got, and shipping was included in the price. Not only that, the 2″x2″ pads came in packs of 6, with the edging and started for only a little more than the best deals I could find for the 4 packs. Several of the other companies were already out as they often took...Read More
(where I’m officing now… the church lobby) This week was pretty unusual. We had some April storms come through on Tuesday, nothing unusual for North Texas this time of year. At about 1:45 (during staff meeting with my team) the fire alarms started going off, but amazingly the power stayed on (in Argyle the power has been known to go off with a steady drizzle). Because the weekly preschool was still in session, all the staff went to help them evacuate. The rain was coming down so hard, we had a major leak down our children’s hallway (water was pouring in) so we evacuated our kids from their classrooms to the auditorium. It was a little bit of chaos (something to work on at next year’s training). We got all the kids situated, put on some Looney Toons (my favorite) and made sure everyone was accounted for. Thankfully the day was almost over. It kept raining and raining and raining. After a few more hours, I just decided to go home. I had to walk about 100 feet to my car and got totally drenched. I went on home, sit down for a bit. 45 minutes passed by and I got a phone call from someone on my staff. She said, “Kenny, you might want to get back up here, we’re flooding!” Already, all the offices and part of...Read More
Article No condemnation here at all, just offering perspective. My problems really aren’t nearly as big as I thought they were. My heart swells with pride when I read this article. Yes it’s sad, but they’ve given more to Christ than I ever have. May I be more like these brothers and sisters of...Read More
I just had to share this one. I’ve requested the media team to rip this portion of the video so I can put it on this site… it’s just too funny. I have hold children’s baptism services three times a year we’re we’ll baptized 20-40 kids each day. Outside of that, I usually get the honor of baptizing 2-4 kids a month. This last Sunday I was scheduled to baptize two girls and their mom. I met with them about 3 weeks earlier and had so much fun. This 6 and 8 year old loved Jesus so, so much. I don’t know if a person could love him more than they did. Mom and Dad were really doing a great job. This Sunday I introduced them to the congregation, we all prayed and then started the baptism. As I was baptizing the first girl, something happened. Just as she went underwater, two large beatles swam right over her head! Okay, our facility is only about 4 years old, but I think we built it on an ancient cricket and beattle burial ground because we are definitely haunted by millions of crickets and beatles. It’s usually just during the fallÃ‚Â and spring, but they can be everywhere. I guess I just wasn’t expecting this. After I pulled the first girl out, I tried to remove the beattles without making a...Read More
One more Ultimate Lock-In… in the bag! As further detailed here, I carried out the 2007 Ultimate Lock-In on Friday, April 20. Probably due to my youth and my quest for fun, I keep my kids up late. Many times, my kindergartners start dropping like flies once we get past the 2:00 am threshold. It was great fun and I think I’d only change a few things. Here’s the details: $20 a kid ($15 each additional sibling) 186 kids 45 pizzas 2 school busses Because we offer a celebrate recovery program on Friday nights, we had to rent out a recreationfacility. Becasuse the facility doesn’t close until 8:00 PM, we couldn’t start our lock-in until 9:00 (the latest I’ve ever started a lock-in). Due to some poor planning on my part, it took a little over 45 minutes to get all the kids registered. Next year I’ll have three check-in stations instead of the one. Families coming in had to check-in (they pre-registered the week before) and then pay (we’re not yet set up to do online payment… soon. I’ve found that in the past, there are people who said they turned in an envelope which never turned up or that someone put the check in the offering. That’s more hassle than I need, so I make everyone pay there). They turn in their liability release form and then...Read More
The Fabulous Reinvention of Sunday School by Aaron Reynolds I can think of only one word to sum up what I thought of this book: Fabulous! Honestly. Last week someone on my staff gave me this book. Although I have a creative streak, usually my administrative tendencies crowd out that part of my personality. Knowing that Willow Creek highly values and usually sets the standard on using the “arts” in ministry… I initially wasn’t interested. I figured this would be a book I would skim. No, really. Any book that is purposely filled with funny and weird sketches on almost every page is enough to make we want to sit in front of CSPAN all day. I think my deal was that I just don’t like using drama and arts in the context of children’s ministry because from my experience, it is usually crappy! So, I wasn’t really interested. That very night I was up late doing some work. It was 1:00 AM (yes, I don’t have kids yet) and I wasn’t quite ready to turn in for the night, so I pulled out this book. Finally at 3:30 AM I put the book down because I knew I was going to be trashed the next day if I didn’t get at least 4 hours of sleep. One word… AMAZING! Totally not what I expected. Yes, the book is...Read More
This post is in response both to a series of post from the “Just Pudge” blog (post 1, post 2 and post 3) and in response to the work I’ve been doing to get ready for a staff retreat I’m leading in a week. We’ve covering some foundational basics of our ministry such as mission, vision as well as developing some job descriptions, processes and the like. One of the projects I’ve been working on is actually putting together the organization chart so everyone can visualize where everyone fits into this great ministry. Some of my staff feels overwhelmed and overworked. I have a feeling that this organizational chart will show why… some of the staff are filling slots that should be filled by volunteers in this organization. So in the end, staff is overworked and volunteers are under-developed. I believe in the philosophy that ministry should be given away and our ultimate goal should be to work ourselves out of a job (theoretically… ha!). Ultimately, if my staff decided to all take a vacation on one Sunday (which they are not allowed to do), ministry should go on! So, at my upcoming staff retreat I’ll be sharing whatÃ‚Â our organization looks like so they can see what is expected as well as how to find and develop volunteers. Ã‚Â Because we have two services a weekend (on my campus) we...Read More
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